My children call me various things. Mummy. Mum. Poo-Head. One thing they have never called me is Mama. This is only to be expected, for I am not cool.
Last year Elisa Strauss reported on the rise of white, middle-class mothers in the US using the term “mama” as “an identity marker, a phrase of distinction, and a way to label the self and designate the group.” Mamas aren’t like mummies or mums (or indeed poo-heads). They’re hip. They’re modern. They’re out there “widen[ing] the horizons of ‘mother,’ without giving up on a mother identity altogether.” And now it’s the turn of the dads.
According to the Daily Beast, the hipster fathers of Brooklyn are asking their children to refer to them as Papa. According to one of those interviewed, Justin Underwood, the word “dad” is simply too “bland and drab”:
“There’s no excitement to it, and I feel like the word papa nowadays has so many meanings. We live in an age when fathers are more in touch with their feminine sides and are all right with playing dress-up and putting on makeup with their daughters.”
Underwood describes “dad” as antiquated, whereas “papa” is an “open-minded, liberal term, like dad with a twist” (but evidently not a twist so far that one might consider putting on makeup with one’s sons).
Read the full post at the New Statesman.